Thursday, October 02, 2008

well, that sucked

my soon-to-be ex-husband just came over to get some of his stuff.  our whole interaction today, largely via email, has completely mystified me.  he asks if can have some items, i say yes to some, no to some, he tells me to just keep everything because it's not worth fighting over.  i hadn't realized answering a question was fighting.  i guess it's not worth working on trying to communicate more clearly since we won't have to bother communicating at all pretty soon.  he'll be coming with a truck saturday for everything else.  i come away from every interaction with him wondering what just happened.  it's like i've missed the first half of the conversation or something.  my plan is just to be present, be clear, and tell the truth.